Shawshank Redemption, The

Shawshank Redemption, The
Shawshank Redemption, The (1994)

IMDB rating: 9.10

Plot: Andy Dufresne, is sent to Shawshank Prison for the murder of his wife and secret lover. He is very isolated and lonely at first, but realises there is something deep inside your body, that people can’t touch and get to….’HOPE’. Andy becomes friends with prison ‘fixer’ Red (Morgan Freeman), and Andy epitomises why it is crucial to have dreams. His spirit and determination, leads us into a world full of imagination, filled with courage and desire. Will Andy ever realise his dreams…?

Directors: Darabont Frank

Actors: Robbins Tim,Freeman Morgan,Gunton Bob,Sadler William,Brown Clancy,Bellows Gil,Rolston Mark,Whitmore James,DeMunn Jeffrey,Brandenburg Larry,Giuntoli Neil,Libby Brian,Proval David,Ragno Joseph,Ciccolella Jude,Drama,

What is the longest prison sentence that has been served and completed?
One of my favorite movies is The Shawshank Redemption. The character "Brooks" served 50+ years and was released after completing his sentence. I’m wondering if there have ever been records of people outliving/completing 60, 70 or 80+ year sentences and released?


Here’s 2:

Jouanna Thiec
Imprisoned at the age of 16, in 1685. Released at 89, in 1758.
Her crime: being a Calvinist in France after Louis XIV revoked the Edict of Nantes.
Her entire imprisonment was spent in a single stone cell, 18′x40′, originally shared with over 30 other women, all of whom died there.

Richard Honeck Sent to prison at 19 in Illinois for murder in 1899 and paroled at 85.

Doodlestuff | Jan 29, 2010


On December 20, 1963, at 1:11 P.M., Richard Honeck, an 84 year old inmate of the Menard Branch of the Illinois State Penitentiary, after 64 consecutive years of immurement, walked through the big double gates to his first breath of freedom in the 20th century.
Golden | Jan 29, 2010

Midnight Express

Midnight Express
Midnight Express (1978)

IMDB rating: 7.50

Plot: Billy Hayes is caught attempting to smuggle drugs out of Turkey. The Turkish courts decide to make an example of him, sentencing him to more than 30 years in prison. Hayes has two opportunities for release: the appeals made by his lawyer, his family, and the American government, or the “Midnight Express”.

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Directors: Parker Alan

Actors: Davis Brad,Hopkins Bo,Bonacelli Paolo,Smith Paul L.,Quaid Randy,Weisser Norbert,Hurt John,Kellin Mike,Diogene Franco,Ensign Michael,Ballista Gigi,Malikyan Kevork,Jeffrey Peter,Boyd Tony,Biography,Crime,Drama,Thriller,

Something I just wrote to express how I'm feeling at the moment.?
Is this the way it was meant to be?
Was it me, that she wasn’t meant to see?
I’ll show her now, as I am walking out
That this is the realist it will get…

Don’t try now and talk to me
Apologizing and being so sweet
When time will show
That you only will forget…

You played my heart right from the start
Left me cold and starved beneith the stars
I got right,
And it was you now that was left…

So keep on trying to suck me back
Midnight texts… I’m loving that
But I’m so far gone that I won’t respond
And you can bet I’m never coming back…

Sent from my iPhone


not bad

The Modern Day Poe | Jan 09, 2010


Well spoken! Straight from the heart! Fourth line, first verse: You cannot say ‘This is the realist it will get’. But I guess he will know what you mean.
Tony B | Jan 09, 2010


i like this it is very modern and Realistic i liked it a lot i want to know who the girl is lol
sexylesbian | Jan 09, 2010

Lolita

Lolita
Lolita (1962)

IMDB rating: 7.70

Plot: Humbert Humbert, a divorced British professor of French literature, travels to small-town America for a teaching position. He allows himself to be swept into a relationship with Charlotte Haze, his widowed and sexually famished landlady, whom he marries in order that he might pursue the woman’s 14-year-old flirtatious daughter, Lolita, with whom he has fallen hopelessly in love, but whose affections shall be thwarted by a devious trickster named Clare Quilty.

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Directors: Kubrick Stanley

Actors: Mason James,Cockrell Gary,Stovin Jerry,Linder Cec,Greene Bill,Dyrenforth James,Harrison John,Comedy,Drama,Romance,

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Queen, The

Queen, The
Queen, The (2006)

IMDB rating: 7.60

Plot: The Queen is an intimate behind the scenes glimpse at the interaction between HM Elizabeth II and Prime Minister Tony Blair during their struggle, following the death of Diana, to reach a compromise between what was a private tragedy for the Royal family and the public’s demand for an overt display of mourning.

Queen, The

Directors: Frears Stephen

Actors: Cromwell James,Jennings Alex,Allam Roger,McMullan Tim,Soans Robin,Reith Douglas,Laffan Pat,McGlynn John,O’Brien Gray,Biography,Drama,

Sometimes my friend takes her anger out on me when I haven't done anything to her. HELP!?
My friend has some troubles at home, so sometimes I call to talk or hang out and she completely lashes out on me! She calls me names like stupid or retarded. She insults my work, family, or other friends who she does not like anyway. She only does this to me! I am her best friend and in the 3 years i’ve known her, she has been mean and bossy but I have never gotten mad at her, we almost split up a year ago, but I managed to real in her anger. I have to apologize even if she did something wrong. She’s like a queen bee, if you are not her friend or have wronged her, she will work extra hard to make your life miserable. Don’t get me wrong, she is fun most of the time but sometimes the anger makes me doubt her. She is very emotional and can only take light insults. I know she also lashes out at her family- they don’t have such a strong bond- in front of others. Don’t just tell me to not be her friend, give me some advice to see what can help me cope, or get her on the right path again.


You need to lay down the law.
Tell her look, i can’t deal with the way you’ve been acting.
If you want to stay her friend that much, then be a good friend, and tell her how you feel.
Maybe telling her will make her wake up and realize wat she’s doing.
Sam | Feb 01, 2010


She’s not your friend. Ditch her. Tell her to give you a call when she’s ready to treat you nicely. You don’t deserve that.
Byakuya | Feb 01, 2010


If it’s not your fault she’s mad at you, you need to resolve it. I’ve had several friends that loosely fit this description, and one that matches exactly. If she’s mad and takes it out on you, ask her why she’s upset with you. If she answers "I’m not" tell her she’s acting like she is mad at you. If she responds in anger, leave her alone for a few days. Don’t return calls if she is still upset. Eventually she’ll cool off, or ask why you are ignoring her. If she asks, simply tell her that you thought she needed some space and you wanted to give her some personal time. If she gets angry with you a good deal of the time for no reason (or at least nothing you caused) and she does not respond civilly, you may need to end this relationship. I’ve had to in the past. They are great friends, but its an unhealthy relationship for both of you if she refuses to grow up and behave properly. I hope this helps.
Delilah | Feb 01, 2010


It’s tough not to give you the "just stop being friends with her" line because you ARE being emotionally abused by this girl. And to top it off - you don’t even get any of the sex benefits that usually come with that thankless job lol.

Because you’re not going to ditch the freindship, it’s hard to tell you what to do. If you can muster the strength or courage, then then next time she starts going off on you, or viciously complaining about everyone & everything, you need to tell her that you understand where she’s coming from & why she’s so angry, but all the brutal negativity is wearing on you & you’ll need to call her back or see her again when she’s calmed down. Tell her there’s nothing you can do for her except be a sounding board, but that she’s GOT to know that she’s just about used you up.

If you don’t put your foot down, then eventually you will just get worn down & worn down to the point where you suddenly blow up on her (from her view "from out of nowhere") and voila! suddenly you’re being dissed along with all those other "jerks who just don’t understand" her to whoever your replacement turns out to be. Good luck!
Yohashuan | Feb 01, 2010


Okay well first of all, she is not your REAL friend if every single time something isn’t going right in her life she lashes out on you. Thats not right. I’m not telling you to stop being friends with her, but you really need to put her in her place. She needs to know that what she does isn’t fair to you. Ask her how she would like it if you did the same thing to her. Tell her that you understand that things aren’t always the best for her, but let her know that you are there for her but the next time she comes at you the wrong way, she needs to find herself a new friend. This isn’t fair to you. Tell her about herself. And the next time she lashes out at you, do NOT apologize to her, that only makes her think that she can keep doing that to you. You need to tell this girl about herself. You are not the one that needs to cope with it. She is the one that needs to control her anger issues.
Ashley D | Feb 01, 2010

The Return of Godzilla

The Return of Godzilla
The Return of Godzilla (1984)

IMDB rating: 5.40

Plot: A reporter investigates the disappearance of a ship. He finds the ship and discovers that all the hands have been killed by a giant sea louse except for one. He then tells the reporter that the ship was destroyed by Godzilla (Gojira). Fearing a panic, the Japanese government then takes the survivor into custody to keep him from revealing that Godzilla has returned. However, a Soviet nuclear submarine is destroyed and the situation puts them and the United States on the brink of nuclear war, until the Japanese decide to come clean and admit that it was Godzilla. Soon the Japan and the rest of the world are on red alert as they wait for Godzilla to begin his rampage anew.

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Directors: Hashimoto Koji

Actors: Tanaka Ken,Natsuki Yosuke,Kobayashi Keiju,Takuma Shin,Ozawa Eitaro,Naito Taketoshi,Suzuki Mizuho,Orimoto Junkichi,Koizumi Hiroshi,Sato Kei,Emoto Takenori,Hashimoto Sho,Kaneko Nobuo,Murai Kunio,Action,Drama,Horror,Sci-Fi,Thriller,

Who will return first, Jesus or Godzilla?
I love that song…


Godzilla, they could make another movie. Jesus has been returning since he ‘died’ and hasn’t shown up yet. Hide nor hair…hmmm.

HereIAm | Jan 24, 2009


Godzilla in a figurative sense.
eelfins | Jan 24, 2009


"Godzilla, for sure!"
I'M NOT ON A DIET!!! | Jan 24, 2009


Godzilla since he will prepare the way for Jesus.
gismoII | Jan 24, 2009


Godzilla.
Hall of Skulls 6 | Jan 24, 2009


Godzilla is fiction, so it has never been here in the first place.. So the answer is Jesus..
Frizby | Jan 24, 2009


neither
WiCkEd YoUnG mAn | Jan 24, 2009

Mamma Mia!

Mamma Mia!
Mamma Mia! (2008)

IMDB rating: 7.00

Plot: Set on a colorful Greek island, the plot serves as a background for a wealth of great ABBA songs which are used in remarkably appropriate ways. A young woman about to be married discovers that any one of three men could be her father. She invites all three to the wedding without telling her mother, Donna, who was once the lead singer of Donna and the Dynamos. In the meantime, Donna has invited her backup singers, Rosie and Tanya.

Directors: Lloyd Phyllida

Actors: Brosnan Pierce,Firth Colin,Skarsgard Stellan,Cooper Dominic,Di Pace Juan Pablo,Georgiou George,Jarvis Chris,Michael Philip,Squillino Jr. Enzo,Turner Dylan,Comedy,Musical,Romance,

What musical makes you happy?
My favorite musical used to be "Hairspray." But now, ever since watching "Mamma Mia!" The Movie. I’ve been addicted to it. No wonder it’s the #1 musical in the world. It’s amazing! I love the storyline. Plus, I don’t mind it having ABBA’s songs. Haha. I love it, love it, love it, love it soooo much! My favorite songs are "Honey, Honey," "The Name Of The Game," "Chiquitita," "Dancing Queen," "Take A Chance On Me," and "Mamma Mia." My top faves are "Honey, Honey," "The Name Of The Game," and "Dancing Queen." This musical makes me happy because the energy, the dances, it all gives me a chill and that shows why I love to act, sing, and dance. And I can’t wait to go to an L.A. acting school. I love the essence of performing. It’s what I love to do. What’s one or two musicals that make you happy? :)


i love guys and dolls!!!!!! and i also love mamma mia!!!!!! also wicked! espcially the song popular!!!!! hahaha galinda makes me laugh!!!!!!!!!

dramafreak33 | Jan 31, 2010


billy elliot
Jesse K | Jan 31, 2010


RagTime!!!
margal3 | Jan 31, 2010


I saw "We Will Rock You" a while back, and it was the greatest play ever! It made me so energetic and happy!
Katie | Jan 31, 2010


My favorite musical is phantom of the opera :D pangela17 | Jan 31, 2010


a lot of them??
questiontime | Jan 31, 2010


Grease (1878) by far :)
I have loved this movie sense I was young.
Defiantly an amazing classic musical!
Lovebug11 | Jan 31, 2010


May be you should enter a different Genre of muscial b/c even the dark ones can make you feel happy sometimes…for instance Sweeny Todd…..if your not into dark things The Lion King on broadway is actually pretty good…and grease is still the best feel good musical of all times
Anna | Jan 31, 2010


I LOVE LOV LOVE LOVE grease 2
Mireya | Jan 31, 2010


not in movie form yet…Wicked.

Available on VHS/DVD:
Fame (the original movie, with Irene Cara)
Legally Blonde (start with the original)

Older ones: West Side Story, Annie, Oliver!, Wizard of Oz. Since you’re talking about heading to school, I figure you’re in your teens now, so I’ve eliminated older ones, like South Pacific, or Music Man, or White Christmas. Great music, but dated. Even Mary Poppins is a musical, but you’ve probably seen that.
Lynne W | Jan 31, 2010


Grease, Hairspray, Wicked, Bye Bye Birdie, Guys and Dolls, West Side Story (even though it’s sad!)…just to name a few. Musicals are what inspire me every day, and I can’t wait to pursue a career performing them!
whenpigzfly93 | Jan 31, 2010


Generally speaking, I’m not big on musicals. That’s an understatement. Usually I can’t sit through one for more than ten minutes. I’ve seen a few, and there’s only one that ever stood out to me, and I think it’s just a schpedoinkle musical.

It’s called Cannibal! the Musical. It’s put out by Troma, the B movie giant that produced such films as The Toxic Avenger, and is still occasionally performed by bad college theater troupes, especially in Colorado, both the setting for it and the birth place of its authors. It was written by Trey Parker and Matt Stone, names you may recognize as the creators of South Park. It was their first film, and honestly, I have only one word for it. Schpedoinkle.
Sal Chaech | Jan 31, 2010

Unfaithful

Unfaithful
Unfaithful (2002)

IMDB rating: 6.50

Plot: Connie Sumner has a loving husband, a beautiful home, and a wonderful son, but she wants more. When she’s approached one day by a handsome stranger while trying to hail a taxi, she becomes obsessed with him and eventually starts an affair. But her selfish actions soon catch up with her…

Directors: Lyne Adrian

Actors: Gere Richard,Chianese Dominic,Lowe Chad,Martinez Olivier,Sullivan Erik Per,Badalucco Jr. Joseph,Anderson Erich,Gupton Damon,Forget Marc,Gleason Larry,Drama,Thriller,

I feel like I lack sexual desire for her. Is our relationship doomed?
My girl is over weight due to a medical condition beyond her control. I love her as a person, but I fear being unfaithful to her. I love sex and I want sex but I’m never in the mood when she wants it. She realizes this but I won’t admit it because I don’t want to make her feel bad. It’s ruining our relationship. She doesn’t feel attractive because I never compliment her and she catches me looking at other women in public and hates it. I’m a honest person, I don’t want to lie to her just to make her feel good. (she would then think I’m ok with it) We’ve been together 11 months and I don’t see it getting any better. I don’t think we’ll make it very far if I don’t desire her sexually.

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (2000)

IMDB rating: 8.00

Plot: Li Mu Bai, a great warrior decides to turn in his sword, the Green Destiny to a treasured friend. When the sword is then stolen, it is up to him to retrieve it. At the same time he is trying to avenge his master’s death by the evil Jade Fox. He is joined in his quest by Shu Lien, the un-conceded love of his life. During all of this, they are introduced to Jiao Long Yu, the mysterious and beautiful daughter of a well known family. She is the mysterious link to all these tales. But through all the many subplots, this is in essence, a love story.

Directors: Lee Ang

Actors: Chow Yun-Fat,Chang Chen,Lung Sihung,Li Fa Zeng,Gao Xian,Wang De Ming,Zhang Jin Ting,Action,Adventure,Drama,Romance,

Were any fans of Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, disappointed with Curse of the Golden Flower?
I found it tried to hard to be ‘cool’, appealing to a young audience, lacking the majesty and beauty of Crouching Tiger


i liked all 3… it is a cool movie curse of the golden flower. and im 15.
ss | Jun 06, 2009


no
Matin R | Jun 06, 2009

Alive

Alive
Alive (1993)

IMDB rating: 6.90

Plot: The amazing, true story of a Uruguayan rugby team’s plane that crashed in the middle of the Andes mountains, and their immense will to survive and pull through alive, forced to do anything and everything they could to stay alive on meager rations and through the freezing cold. The only thing the team has riding on after losing so many of their good friends and family members is the slim chance of making it through alive and their faithfulness to God.

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Directors: Marshall Frank

Actors: Hawke Ethan,Spano Vincent,Hamilton Josh,Ramsay Bruce,Newton John,Kriegel David,Breznahan Kevin,Behrens Sam,Noseworthy Jack,Meoli Christian J.,Carpenter Jake,DeLorenzo Michael,Zuniga Jose,Nucci Danny,Drama,Action,Adventure,Thriller,

Kleine

Last Exit

Last Exit
Last Exit (2006)

IMDB rating: 6.20

Plot: Shattered windshields. Twisted wreckage. Last Exit is an action-suspense drama that tells the parallel stories of two ordinary women - one, a single mother barely supporting her handicapped son, and the other, a working mom precariously balancing her family with a high-pressure career - on one extraordinary day. Each woman’s life frays under the weight of her circumstances and spirals out of control. As police officers race to save them, pieces of a shattered puzzle fall into place - maybe this wasn’t just a tragic car accident after all. Both women fight for their lives, but ultimately, only one will survive

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Directors: Fawcett John

Actors: Post Tim,Ashby Linden,Action,Drama

She told me she was virgin and I really was in love with her, however last night she told me she wasn't virgin?
Hi, I’m a 25 year old guy… so, we have been dating for 2 years and four months, I always thought she was a very special girl, from the beginning of our relationship she told me she was virgin. The fact of her being virgin made me realize how lucky I was… I thought she was a very unique and incredible girl..( I happen to be a guy who doesn’t believe in sex before of marriage) I really thought this girl was the girl of my dreams and therefore I decided to propose to her last December… we were going to get married on April 4th.. I was really so exited about spending the rest of my life with this girl.. however… something horrible happened yesterday…. the girl I thought was special, told me something very sad, she told me she had lied to me about her being virgin…… now I don’t know what to think about her, I feel like she cheated on me… it doesn’t matter when she did it, she had sex with another man… she was supposed to be decent and wait until marriage, I think I don’t find her special anymore, I don’t think I love her anymore.. how could I tell her that I’m not interested anymore in marrying her? thanks.


just tell her that she broke your heart your trust and Image of her and you want to marry someone that respects you as much as you respect them by saving themselves for marriage like you did and that isn’t her

eat_931 | Feb 05, 2010


It’s sad that you would lose out on love because of something like that. You loved her before even though she wasn’t a virgin. If you can’t go back to that, tell her the truth as kindly as you can. She will probably be really depressed and angry at the same time. You shouldn’t marry someone that you can’t love, but you should also try to be a bit more open-minded.
ClaudeC | Feb 05, 2010


Wow, I don’t mean to be rude but you’re kind of a jerk. She had sex with one man, and I’m guessing this was over 2 years ago before you started dating. It was obviously something very shameful for her and she tried to ignore it but couldn’t keep it a secret from you. She is still the special girl you fell in love with, and just because you didn’t get to share that moment together doesn’t make your love less strong unless you make it. If you really cared about her, you’d forgive her and love her anyway.
Elles | Feb 05, 2010


Wow, if you truly loved someone, you shouldn’t be discouraged and wanna break it off just by one detail she may have been afraid to tell you in the beginning or just never thought it’d be an issue.
What if she was simply afraid to tell you because you wouldn’t giver a chance. Ever heard of born again virgin?
There are so many different scenarios as to why she didn’t tell you because she probably thought you’d judge her as you are now and think badly upon her even if she regrets it to her very core. You should really discuss this issue with her before breaking it off, because if you truly felt the way you described you did, then you would give her the benefit of the doubt.

People change, people learn from their mistakes. They can repent.

Give her a chance to explain and open your heart to her if you really love her and thought all those wonderful things about her. We all sin, we are not perfect. Obviously if this makes you make you want to break it off with her, you just didn’t really have all those strong emotions and are looking for any excuse to get out of what you’ve done.
???.?????? | Feb 05, 2010


Your idea to end the relationship is probably the best choice. Judging by your story, you were definitely not in love at all, ever. Love endures, even things that hurt you.
Tonya | Feb 05, 2010


Your right… this is sad.

If this bothers you so much. I don’t think you were in love with her… I think you were in love with the IDEA of her. She is no different now then she was when you proposed. If she had lied to you about something else would you feel so bad?

I would say that she probably lied to you about this because she knew how much you wanted someone pure… or because she was ashamed that she had done it. No one is perfect and no one is truly pure. Everyone in the world has done something that they’re not proud of or that they wish they hadn’t done.

You should respect the fact that she didn’t keep up the lie. She told you obviously because she felt guilt. She could of went ahead and married you and you would of probably never have known the difference. The fact that she chose to tell you after all this time means that she trusted you to be able to see past her mistakes…. and trust me we all make mistakes. If you can’t see past this one your not going to be able to see past all the others she’ll make through out her life.

I would recommend that you take some time to really think about this. If you truly don’t see her as you did before and you really don’t think she’s as special… or you don’t think you love her. Well you never did to start with you just loved the idea. In that case it’s no real loss to you or her to break it off.

Honesty is always the best policy… as you’ve learned. So if you need to break it off with her just tell her the truth. She may or may not understand but it’s just the best way to go.
Shannon | Feb 05, 2010


Well you obviously didn’t love her for who she is, just what she has or hasn’t done, so she’s better off without you. I’d tell her exactly that.
Sarah B | Feb 05, 2010


sounds to me like your jealous and selfish. She had sex with someone, probably a while back. get over it. its the 21st century. If your mad about something like that you shouldnt be marrying her anyways, you will face much bigger problems trust me. Get over it. Move on. If you cant and u end it because of you then thats really selfish and you should seek help
oregon | Feb 05, 2010


I can understand why you feel the way you do. She deceived you. But if you truly love this girl you will forgive her. Try and see her side of why she did this. She was probably terrified to tell you knowing how you felt about wanting a virgin. If you think this girl really loves you then forgive her and don’t miss out on her love. It is hard to find true love. If you can’t forgive her for this then just tell her the truth and move on. She doesn’t need you. Remember in relationships there will be hard times.
SundaeRose | Feb 05, 2010


Dump her and tell her it’s all her fault, and it is her fault for lying. ur proble gunna get 500 woman leaving u comments calling u and me jerks, but it’s the principle. sorry ladies no guy wants a girl that has been around the block…
Kevin | Feb 05, 2010


Well you’ve been lied to and I know that hurts because you thought she was special and the one for you. This goes against your morals and everything that you believe in and stand for. You have two very important questions that you have to ask yourself. The first question is, do you still love and care for her enough to get past this? The second question is, will you ever be able to completely trust her like you did before if you choose to go on with her? If your answer is yes to both of these questions then I would try to make it work. However, if your answer is no to either one of these questions I would choose to end this relationship. I would tell her the truth about everything I’m feeling inside and I would give her my reasons whatever they may be. If you believe in God pray about it and then follow your heart. You’ve already been hurt once, there is no reason to keep on hurting yourself if she’s not going to be true to you.
Orion | Feb 05, 2010


Okay, I’ll agree with you that in a first marriage virginity is an asset but, so is honesty! We don’t live in a perfect world and kids aren’t taught in school or by their parents like our grandparents were to save them selves for marriage.
Now, here’s the thing about true love! It’s FORGIVING! So, if you can’t forgive her for her past mistake then you never really loved her anyway. Just move on. I’m sure there are other virgins out there. They may be even older than you and more than likely out weigh you by five times but, that’s just more to love.
The bottom line is you’re not perfect and you will never find a perfect woman either. And if you can’t forgive her then you will have to take your chances elsewhere. Just tell her that she lied to you at first about being a virgin and you can’t deal with it knowing that you will never be her first and she just waisted the last two years of her life on you being faithful but, that really doesn’t matter to you any more because, you can’t forgive her for being a horny teenager at one point in her life.
Although, I think telling her that, would be the biggest mistake of your life because, you will always look back on it and wonder what would have happened if you weren’t so judgmental.
Hey, what do I know anyway? I don’t have to live your life for you, you do. I admire you for your standards! And so does you girl friend I’m sure or she wouldn’t have confessed to you. You’ve already got her half trained and you what to dump her?
Christopher | Feb 05, 2010


Please do yourself a huge favor and DON’T listen to the majority of these fools.

Dump her–now. Trust me, just do it and don’t you dare look back.

Six words: "she told me she was virgin"

She lied to you. I don’t give a flying damn that it was about virginity, it’s that she began a relationship built on a lie. Run, don’t walk, from this relationship. Do you think it’s going to get better? She put her best foot forward and it was a lie.

I know it hurt, I know you had high hopes, but in all honesty, you should be soooo very thankful you found out before you said "I do". You have been given a huge reprieve, friend. Don’t blow it.
krejaton | Feb 05, 2010


You’re an idiot for being so obsessed with virginity above everything else, and she’s an idiot for lying.

The relationship is doomed, firstly because you didn’t love her but you clearly loved her virginity (and that’s what you thought was special, rather than her personality or anything else), and she’s been dishonest about something she knew was important for you - she fessed up in the end but not for a while. So you don’t love her, she’s lied, it’s doomed.

LMAO at the people who think no sex until marriage is a good idea
Blueberry Head | Feb 05, 2010


This section is Marriage and Divorce. Married women are not supposed to be virgins. And even if you have a girlfriend who is 25 years old and a virgin- let me tell you something. If she has gone this long without having sex there is something wrong with her. Whoever is unfortunate enough to marry her is going to be extremely frustrated as a husband because such a girl is never going to be a good sex partner.
Conocedor | Feb 05, 2010